Personally, as somebody who loves life's little details, I think there is room for both and I try to offer a good all-round set of images, capturing the details of the day and the people who were there to enjoy it.
So...this debate lead me to think about memories in general, and those parts of life that we may not consider worthy of photographing but which we might, one day, forget.
Let me put my musings into context...
My grandma passed away 11 years ago when I was 17. I still have a good memory of her, but my memories have started to fade and there are certain things, even after only 11 years, that I can't picture in my mind anymore. What will I be able to remember in another 11 years?
One thing that I struggle to remember are her hands. I can't picture them anymore. I remember that she always had beautifully painted nails, but I can't picture them in my mind. I wish I had a picture of her hands.
I also wish I had a picture of her stood in the hallway, combing her hair in front of her mirror with the weird comb that she had. I remember it was weird, but I can't remember what it looked like. I wish I had a picture of her holding her comb.
I also wish I had a picture of her in her favourite type of slippers (the ones with no toes in). There are many, many more memories I wish I had captured, and this is maybe where my love of details comes from.
Our family has 100's of photographs from weddings, birthdays, Christmases and holidays and my grandma is featured heavily in those pictures. I would not change these in any way, but these are not my memories, they are pictures of a person posing for the camera. I wish I had some of my memories captured, like I described above.
So, I thought I would undertake a little personal project, and I have recently taken my first image.
My beautiful sister-in-law recently got married. The lady in the picture with Kat and Will is Kat's nan, Pauline. Pauline is now also my nan, and I love her as if I had known her my whole life. Because I never had the chance to capture this image with my Grandma, I thought I would do so with Pauline. I'm sure there are many moments her family would love to capture; memories are so personal it would be impossible for me to second guess them.
This is not so much capturing memories as capturing moments and the details which make up somebody's life, to enable you to remember them forever.
So, I am setting out on a challenge to capture some moments that in 10, 20, 30 years will enable me to visualise those things which are so important to me know, but which would not have otherwise been captured in a set of 'normal' family photographs.
What do you remember when you think of a loved one, and are there any moments/details which seemed mundane at the time but you now wish you could visualise?
I'm very excited to see where this personal project takes me.